The Idea of Gifting

What do you considering gifting? I recently had a discussion with a friend about it. I have always thought it was about giving someone something that probably wouldn't buy themselves; the usefulness is not entirely important. Others may feel that they are obligated gifts from friends and family for anniversary and holidays; this is certainly a terrible perspective.

But it's not so simple. There may be potential after-effects. The receiving party may feel socially required to return of the favor especially if the gift was of high monetary value. The recipient may feel under or overwhelmed by the gift and may lead to being self-conscious. In addition to that, the recipient may also convey the meaning of the gift in an unintended manner. For example, gifting clothes could possibly be taken as "You need nicer clothes and smell; here you go". Finding the right gift is so difficult. But never give cash:

Some people feel uncomfortable receiving gifts; others feel awkward giving gifts. The latter is much more pleasant and more natural for me. And, the fact that everyone watches the recipient's reaction, not the gifter's, makes it more agonizing; I never know if I have a proper reaction since I often hide my emotions from my face and sometimes suppress my excitement.

Remember, be a Kramer.